Setting Realistic Wellness Goals for Sustainable Change
- mloucks912
- Jan 29
- 3 min read

The start of a new year is the perfect time to reflect on your progress, identify areas for growth, and set intentional goals that align with your vision for a healthier, happier life. Achieving sustainable change requires a plan rooted in your mission, values, and priorities. Let’s explore how to approach goal-setting in a way that fosters meaningful progress across all areas of your life.
Reflect on Where You Are
Begin by reflecting on your achievements and challenges from the past year. What worked well? What didn’t? Identifying these patterns can guide you in setting realistic and impactful goals.
Three Pillars of Goal-Setting: Health, Wealth, and Relationships
I like to divide lifestyle goals into three areas: health, wealth, and relationships. Nearly every aspect of life can fit into these categories, creating a balanced framework for personal growth.
Health: Physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Example: Eating whole foods, starting a workout routine, or prioritizing mental health.
Wealth: Finances, career, and personal development. Example: Saving for a vacation, advancing in your career, or learning a new skill.
Relationships: Connection with others, community, self and spirituality. Example: Spending quality time with family, deepening friendships, or practicing self-care.
Define Your Mission and Values
Before setting goals, take time to define your mission and values:
Mission: Your overall purpose or what drives you. Example: “To live a life of vitality and balance while supporting my community.”
Values: The principles that guide your decisions. Example: Integrity, health, creativity, or connection.
These will act as a compass to ensure your goals are aligned with what truly matters to you.
Creating a Vision Board
A vision board is a visual representation of your goals and aspirations. It helps you stay inspired and focused.
Digital Vision Board: Use platforms like Pinterest to create an online collection of images.
Physical Vision Board: Cut out pictures from magazines and add quotes, affirmations, or personal photos.
Example: Include images of healthy meals, a serene yoga pose, a savings goal tracker, or a happy family gathering.
Set Yearly and Quarterly Goals
Break your goals into manageable steps:
Yearly Goals: Broad objectives you aim to accomplish over the year. Example: “Improve my physical fitness,” “Build an emergency savings fund,” or “Rekindle friendships.”
Quarterly Goals: Specific, actionable steps to achieve your yearly goals. Example: “Exercise three times a week this quarter,” “Save $1,000 by March,” or “Schedule one coffee date per month.”
Focus on 3-4 goals each quarter, choosing 1-2 from each area (health, wealth, and relationships) to maintain balance.
Align Daily Priorities with Quarterly Goals
Your daily habits and tasks should support your quarterly goals. Ask yourself: Is what I’m doing today helping me achieve my goals?
Aligned Activities: Prepping healthy meals supports your goal of better nutrition. Setting aside 15 minutes to review finances aligns with your savings goal.
Not Aligned: Binge-watching TV every evening might hinder your fitness or relationship goals. Overspending on unnecessary items conflicts with building savings.
The Power of Reflection
Regular reflection helps you stay on track and adjust as needed:
Daily: Review your priorities and plan tomorrow’s actions.
Weekly: Reflect on wins, challenges, and what to improve.
Monthly: Assess your progress toward quarterly goals.
Quarterly: Evaluate what worked, refine your goals, and set new intentions for the next quarter.
Sustainable Change Takes Commitment
Achieving lasting change is about consistency, not perfection. Focus on small, manageable steps that align with your mission and values. By reflecting regularly and adjusting as needed, you’ll build momentum and make steady progress toward your vision for a healthier, wealthier, and more fulfilling life.
What are your top priorities this year? Let me know in the comments!
Ready to learn more? Be sure to grab your Six Small Shifts Checklist to help you get started on your wellness journey.
Wishing you peace, strength and love,
Maryann
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